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Archive for October 31st, 2009(In response to myself…)
I think it’s a problem of trust. I don’t trust that I’ll be successful in most of my endeavors, but I’m not willing to wait to prove myself wrong. I don’t trust my friends to support me through everything, so I disconnect myself to deal with problems myself.
Somehow, I lost my optimism, and I’ll I’m left with is a sour feeling of distrust in everything. Hence arises a new question…How do I regain lost confidence?
October 31st, 2009 at 2:05 pm
why don’t you trust?
be heppy! honestly, it’s not about the result - it’s about the journey. as long as you’re putting in the effort and enjoying both the successes and obstacles, that’s enough.
i think maybe what you should be thinking about is whether what you’re currently working for IS enjoyable and worth the effort. (not to give you doubt or anything, but i think maybe that’s where you’re having trouble.)
go jenn! e-hug!
November 2nd, 2009 at 2:08 am
id say over 80% of things in life require leaps of faith. if you get too caught up with worrying about the outcome, youll just end up doubting a lot of things. i understand your feelings of distrust, but id try not to worry/think about it too much. you just have to hope, because a lot of times thats all we’re given to work with. i dont know too much about confidence, but id venture to say that it will come back once you worry less about your future. i dont mean to live as if your future out of your control, but dont let the uncertainty of it stress you out